Category: Reality

  • Bias By Us: How Our Unconscious Programs Us to Harm the Other

    Bias By Us: How Our Unconscious Programs Us to Harm the Other

    Black, White, or Other? “Pedro, Pedro, go back to Mexico.” “Pedro, Pedro, go back to Mexico.” “Pedro, Pedro, go back to Mexico.” Being Black and growing up in the South—between Virginia and Mississippi—with a name like Pedro Senhorinha Ramos Montero Silva brought in many unwelcomed experiences in my life. One of which was the othering…

  • Diversity and the Rightness of Being Wrong

    Diversity and the Rightness of Being Wrong

    Doing the Right Thing the Wrong Way Did you know that by doing the right thing the wrong way, you could do a lot more harm than good? You don’t have to look any further than the many tone deaf ad campaigns that somehow still make it out in the world and see that if…

  • I Work For Your Organization. And You Can’t Stop Me.

    I Work For Your Organization. And You Can’t Stop Me.

    In Mandarin there is a phrase that goes, 水涨船高 (shuǐzhǎngchuángāo)–literally water rise boat high–which basically comes down to the often expressed wisdom that we hear in American economics, “a rising tide lifts all boats”. A lot of people attribute the saying to John F. Kennedy. But it turns out he got it from his speechwriter,…

  • What are In-Divide-You-Alls? 

    What are In-Divide-You-Alls? 

    What are In-Divide-You-Alls? I have never met an individual. I’ve met people who live as if they’re individuals. And I’ve tried and failed to be one in an effort to understand a concept that fundamentally makes no sense to me. But I’ve come to see that it didn’t work because I just can’t feel my…

  • Emotional Distraction: Why We Project Past Feelings on to Present Moments

    Emotional Distraction: Why We Project Past Feelings on to Present Moments

    Did you know that we, as individuals, families, communities, societies and cultures can be addicted to emotional states? Yes. We can be. And many of us are whether we are consciously aware of it or not. What’s more, we use each other for our fixes. And once we get the sensation that we’re looking for,…

  • Expressing the Invisible God

    Expressing the Invisible God

    I’ll never forget what my instructor said to the class on my first day of military tech school for satellite communications. “In order to do this job well, you have to be able to see the invisible.” He went on to introduce us to the world of frequencies and throughout the course explain the nature…

  • Going With the Flow:The Way of the Mind

    Going With the Flow:The Way of the Mind

    The first thing to know about the mind is that it is not a container that holds your thoughts like some kind of cerebral cookie jar. It is more like a stream upon which thoughts might float and dissolve into. You are not your thoughts. Nor are you simply your mind. The essential and incorruptible…

  • When the Economy No Longer Serves Humanity…Create a New One

    When the Economy No Longer Serves Humanity…Create a New One

    The economy was created to serve humanity, humanity was not created to serve the economy.

  • Love is God (Complete and Utter Joy)

    Love is God (Complete and Utter Joy)

    Sometimes I feel like I have to apologize to anyone burdened by the belief that God’s essence is anything other than Love. Even though I consciously know I’m not responsible for centuries of teachings to the contrary, when I see so many people burdened by the lie that God is just looking for ways to…

  • The New Rule of L.A.W. – Love Always Wins

    The New Rule of L.A.W. – Love Always Wins

    For months, I have been trying to make sense of this awareness in my soul that there was something calling me forward no matter how painful 2020 has been. However, I couldn’t figure out how to articulate it until I was listening to a Matisyahu song called One Day. Then it hit me that I…