Tag: Consciousness

  • Emotional Distraction: Why We Project Past Feelings on to Present Moments

    Emotional Distraction: Why We Project Past Feelings on to Present Moments

    Did you know that we, as individuals, families, communities, societies and cultures can be addicted to emotional states? Yes. We can be. And many of us are whether we are consciously aware of it or not. What’s more, we use each other for our fixes. And once we get the sensation that we’re looking for,…

  • Fool Me Twice: Why We Believe the Liars That We Know Are Lying

    Fool Me Twice: Why We Believe the Liars That We Know Are Lying

    In my experience, it is the one who most vehemently accuses someone of something that’s actually the one doing it—like cheating in a relationship or voter fraud. And also in my experience, the person being lied to is usually the least willing to accept the weight of the revelation. They say that it is because…

  • Bring Your Aliveness To All You Do

    Bring Your Aliveness To All You Do

    Right now what makes me come alive is helping other people come alive and helping organizations become spaces for cultivating aliveness among the members of their work community so that they can create products and services the world needs. Because when we bring our aliveness to all we do, it creates opportunities for flourishing for…

  • Tools For Creating Greater Belonging Full Video

    Tools For Creating Greater Belonging Full Video

    Belonging is an essential need for every person. And, creating greater belonging is the main ingredient for community thriving and healthy democracy. But what do we do when our ability to foster belonging reaches its limits? Or when we are frustrated with being excluded from the communities that profess to be welcoming? How do we…

  • Tools for Creating Greater Belonging

    Tools for Creating Greater Belonging

    Belonging is an essential need for every person. And, creating greater belonging is the main ingredient for community thriving and healthy democracy. But what do we do when our ability to foster belonging reaches its limits? Or when we are frustrated with being excluded from the communities that profess to be welcoming?

  • Is This the Face of Fear?

    Is This the Face of Fear?

    Someone responded to a poem I wrote by saying I was an ignorant religious person, divisive, and a bad writer. I’m not fishing for compliments. So, don’t worry about filling my bucket. Rather, I’m just wanting to look at this philosophically. What I’m thinking about is the question of how or if one should try…

  • Conversation  Catalyst or Conversation Coward?

    Conversation Catalyst or Conversation Coward?

    Usually I write poems or long blogs to express my thoughts. This time I drew a picture. The point of the picture—if it’s not obvious—is that I think we are at a critical moment in the world when we can choose to be #ConversationCatalysts and foster a #CollaborativeCulture or we can be #ConversationCowards and devolve…

  • A Call to Restore the Balance

    A Call to Restore the Balance

    A bird flapping with one wing is grounded and spins in a circle going nowhere fast. – The Way

  • Mother, Minister, Manager: The 3Ms of Leading People Successfully

    Mother, Minister, Manager: The 3Ms of Leading People Successfully

    As a former pastor, I feel tempted to call these 3Ms of leading people, “The Holy Trinity of Leading People Successfully”. But maybe, I’ll call it the “Wholly Trinity” because when leading people it is best to see us as whole people and that is what the 3Ms encourage us to do. I must acknowledge…

  • The Alpha and the Omega: Why Endings Are as Important as Beginnings

    The Alpha and the Omega: Why Endings Are as Important as Beginnings

    Endings matter because the final moments of a group’s togetherness can substantially influence the entire experience. The ending can modify the experience, make it better or worse, embed it deeply in memory or, absent a strong close, can dilute an experience into something that happened, but mattered little. Tim McNamara – https://sweetunrest.com/ending-well-treating-classes-like-gatherings-part-three/ One of the…