Author: Higher Up IDEALS

  • “I” Does Not Exist – The Power and Peril of Family Systems (Boulder, CO)

    “I” Does Not Exist – The Power and Peril of Family Systems (Boulder, CO)

    When One Suffers, We All Suffer I have been trying to do soul surgery on myself ever since learning about the shooting at the King Soopers in Boulder, CO where I have shopped countless times and sometimes drop my daughter off for her gymnastics carpool. I am doing this because in my heart of hearts,…

  • All Will Know

    All Will Know

    I am looking forward to the day when I will no longer be called to preach. Does that sound shocking? Perhaps provocative?  Well, to some degree it was meant to be because I want to get your attention so that you hear what I have to say next. I am looking forward to the day…

  • …As Yourself : The Way of Love

    …As Yourself : The Way of Love

    He said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.” –…

  • Permission to Speak Freely: “Let’s Talk as Equals”

    Permission to Speak Freely: “Let’s Talk as Equals”

    Whether we intend them to or not, most of our conversations happen in frameworks that are upheld by socially accepted ranking systems. As I’ve witnessed it, when conversations happen in a context where someone believed to hold a “higher social ranking”, it is virtually impossible to have the conversations we need to have in order…

  • The Art of Wasting Potential

    The Art of Wasting Potential

    One of the most wicked destructive forces, psychologically speaking, is unused creative power … If someone has a creative gift and out of laziness, or for some other reason, doesn’t use it, the psychic energy turns to sheer poison. That’s why we often diagnose neuroses and psychotic diseases as not-lived higher possibilities. Marie-Louise von Franz…

  • Hear the (W)hole Story

    Hear the (W)hole Story

    Why is it that so many people see other perspectives and experiences as a threat? And why is it that we also tend to fill in holes and gaps in stories with whatever the path of least resistance offers us? As a person with a philosophical bent, I can admit that in most cases, I…

  • Ghosts of Suicide

    Ghosts of Suicide

    Originally posted on The Roofless Church: https://youtu.be/UCctI-pxJ8c I am not one of those people who believes that people ever get over the traumas that happen in their lives. Rather, I believe that we either learn to live with them or we expand to leverage them. In my own life, I can admit that I  have…

  • When the Economy No Longer Serves Humanity…Create a New One

    When the Economy No Longer Serves Humanity…Create a New One

    The economy was created to serve humanity, humanity was not created to serve the economy.

  • You Don’t Owe Jack, But Love!

    You Don’t Owe Jack, But Love!

    Love for One Another Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery; You shall not murder; You shall not steal; You shall not covet”; and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, “Love your neighbor…

  • Save the Future With Your Present Conversations

    Save the Future With Your Present Conversations

    If you are part of a community of folks as small as your family or as large as a megachurch and you aren’t challenging yourselves in your conversations your communications are the equivalent of standing water. And elementary science tells us what happens to standing water. The conversations that we participate in are supposed to…